What I really enjoyed was looking around, watching the girls dance and then picking one girl to take into a private booth, away from prying eyes where I could sit back and have her all to myself.
And if we bring the metaphor back to live cam sites, when you have the model all to yourself you get to direct the show.
While sites like My Free Cams is certainly great for budget-conscious users - and I have definitely spent some great times on them - they’re no substitute for my desire for intimacy, control and exclusivity in a cam show.
It's kind of like going to a strip club: I was never the guy who got on the stage or threw money at the girls so that the whole club could watch her pick it up (to me, that's kind of what My Free Cams is like).
Tell her what you want to see and how you want to see it and most of the time your wish will be her command - just be polite, don't be a jerk and maybe ask her in the free chat what she does and doesn't do in private so you know before you head in there.